A free guide for women in decades-long relationships
Stay or go? 10 honest questions to ask yourself before you decide
After decades together, this isn't a decision you make in a weekend. This gentle guide helps you hear your own answer underneath the fear, the guilt and everyone else's opinions.
The Decisive Woman · Free guide
Stay or go?
10 honest questions to ask yourself before you decide
For women in decades-long relationships
Inside the guide
Honest, private and kind. Read it somewhere quiet, with a pen.
01
Why you can't decide
The parts of you pulling in different directions, and why being torn is normal, not weak.
02
Fear, or knowing?
How to tell whether a feeling is coming from panic and exhaustion, or from a deeper truth.
03
The 10 questions
Prompts about what you want, what you'd grieve and what you've outgrown, to journal with.
04
Staying steady meanwhile
Simple body-based practices so you aren't deciding from 3am dread.
From Dee
I'm a therapist and conflict resolution specialist, and I help women in decades-long relationships decide whether to stay or go.
I wrote this guide because so many women carry this question alone for years, too afraid or too loyal to say it out loud. This guide won't tell you what to do. It will help you listen to yourself, which is where every good decision starts.
“It was as if we were given permission to be who we are right now, in the tension of what we’ve walked in and who we choose to become.”
Kat, women's group program
Your answer is already in you
This guide helps you hear it. Free, private and yours to keep.